Don't give up ...it will be tough

Here’s a little secret that those of the female persuasion keep from us guys: Girls, even
very beautiful girls, like to be approached by a confident and interesting boy. Are you
surprised? It’s true…and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to
ladies of all ages, too. That’s true for internet dating, as well as, dating in your brick
and mortar world but we’re talking about internet dating here…so back to the subject at
hand.

Once you have joined an online dating service, you will find that there a lot more men than
women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts
than women. Yes, it’s a girl’s world…still. It’s “traditional” for men to make the first
move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your
profile and picture are so important.

Remember…confident and interesting….and that does not translate to cocky and self-centered.
It’s important that your profile lets people know that you have friends you care about and
that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST sports. Another thing
about that all-important profile….please don’t start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned
you about”.

You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is,
“I could be the boy of your dreams”. The lady HOPES you are but she will be the judge of
that…so don’t insult her intelligence. Remember….exude confidence and interesting and you
will find that lady you have been looking for…or she will find you.

Won’t it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything?
If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.